A Long Term Sex Partner?

[doctrine]

Hi everyone. Asking something which may sound dumb, hopefully no one will judge or criticise.

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. I do not need to be her exclusive partner, she's free to be with other men as well. The reason is because I don't want to meet too many people and expose my identity. I find that FLs are hard for such arrangements, as many are only doing it till they are out of financial trouble, and eventually leave the trade. Girlfriends are tough as well, because I don't think I can open up my own heart due to bad experiences in the past.

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term? Please don't criticise my ignorance �� thanks everyone.

[nitetcrawler]

Originally Posted by doctrine

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. The lady doesn't have to be my exclusive partner

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term?

How long is long?

A paid arrangement - sb?
No paid arrangement - Fwb?

[Az284]

Originally Posted by nitetcrawler

How long is long?

A paid arrangement - sb?
No paid arrangement - Feb?

Non-paid - think you mean FWB

[doctrine]

Originally Posted by nitetcrawler

How long is long?

A paid arrangement - sb?
No paid arrangement - Feb?

Hi. May I know what is sb and Feb?

I would say long term will probably be at least a few years, doesn't have to meet everyday.

Thought about it myself, I used to have a local FL I engaged for a few years. We chat on SMS regularly as well and she has a boyfriend all along. Eventually I stopped looking for her due to financial issues back then. I didn't engage other FLs after I started looking for her regularly.

[donut88]

Be a sugar daddy. Money talks.

U want FWB? not easy to get unless u r lucky and have some charm.

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Asking something which may sound dumb, hopefully no one will judge or criticise.

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. The lady doesn't have to be my exclusive partner. The reason is because I don't want to meet too many people and expose my identity. I find that FLs are hard for such arrangements, as many are only doing it till they are out of financial trouble, and eventually leave the trade. Girlfriends are tough as well, because I don't think I can open up my own heart due to bad experiences in the past.

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term? Please don't criticise my ignorance 🙏 thanks everyone.

[Emmalingdream]

I would think that girls prefer to stick to one for safety reasons too?

[doctrine]

Originally Posted by Emmalingdream

I would think that girls prefer to stick to one for safety reasons too?

Yes. But I won't mind if the lady is seeing someone else at the same time.

[Emmalingdream]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Yes. But I won't mind if the lady is seeing someone else at the same time.

I don't think it's too difficult for you to find one if the guy choose to stick to one..?

[Metsudone]

Variety is spice of life. Hahaha

[doctrine]

Originally Posted by Emmalingdream

I don't think it's too difficult for you to find one if the guy choose to stick to one..?

Hi. How do you think I should find? Do you think FL is a good idea?

[nitetcrawler]

Originally Posted by Az284

Non-paid - think you mean FWB

Apologies typo, yes is fwb

[nitetcrawler]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi. May I know what is sb and Feb?

I would say long term will probably be at least a few years, doesn't have to meet everyday.

Thought about it myself, I used to have a local FL I engaged for a few years. We chat on SMS regularly as well and she has a boyfriend all along. Eventually I stopped looking for her due to financial issues back then. I didn't engage other FLs after I started looking for her regularly.

Apologies for the typo. Feb should be fwb

[Rossyboi]

Originally Posted by nitetcrawler

Apologies for the typo. Feb should be fwb

lol the wonders of autocorrect can works both ways

Yea on ts’ question…

Regardless of FL or FWB, I always find myself sticking to just at any one time… that is once you’ve found the right one, be it for ur didi or for your heart or both…

[Morava]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi. May I know what is sb and Feb?

sb = sugar baby, paid (per meet or lump sum per month/week)
feb = fwb, typo error.

I suggest you look at it from another angle, instead of long term, just think of regular.
Long term carries a high bar that is dependant on many factors.
Regular - just try and see where it leads you.

[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Asking something which may sound dumb, hopefully no one will judge or criticise.

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. I do not need to be her exclusive partner, she's free to be with other men as well. The reason is because I don't want to meet too many people and expose my identity. I find that FLs are hard for such arrangements, as many are only doing it till they are out of financial trouble, and eventually leave the trade. Girlfriends are tough as well, because I don't think I can open up my own heart due to bad experiences in the past.

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term? Please don't criticise my ignorance �� thanks everyone.

A long term sex partner is called a WIFE, dumb dumb